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    Politeness is the best policy.

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    Politeness is the best policy.

    Post  Fallen on Sat May 07, 2011 9:43 pm






    Many years ago my wife and I were on a trip to Carmel, California for some shopping and exploring. On the way we stopped at a service station. As soon as we parked our car in front of the pumps, a young man, about eighteen or nineteen, came bouncing out to the car and with a big smile said, "Can I help you?"

    "Yes," I answered. "A full tank of gas, please." I wasn't prepared for what followed. In this day and age of self-service and deteriorating customer treatment, this young man checked every tire, washed every window - even the sunroof - singing and whistling the whole time. We couldn't believe both the quality of service and his upbeat attitude about his work.

    When he brought the bill I said to the young man, "Hey, you really have taken good care of us. I appreciate it."

    He replied, "I really enjoy working. It's fun for me and I get to meet nice people like you."

    This kid was really something!

    I said, "We're on our way to Carmel and we want to get some milkshakes. Can you tell us where we can find the nearest Baskin-Robbins?"

    "Baskin-Robbins is just a few blocks away," he said as he gave us exact directions. Then he added, "Don't park out front - park around to the side so your car won't get sideswiped."

    What a kid!

    As we got to the ice cream store we ordered milkshakes, except that instead of two, we ordered three. Then we drove back to the station. Our young friend dashed out to greet us. "Hey, I see you got your milkshakes."

    "Yes, and this one is for you!"


    His mouth fell open. "For me?"

    "Sure. With all the fantastic service you gave us, I couldn't leave you out of the milkshake deal."

    "Wow!" was his astonished reply.

    As we drove off I could see him in my rear-view mirror just standing there, grinning from ear to ear.

    Now, what did this little act of generosity cost me? Only about two dollars - you see, it's not the money, it's the consideration.

    Well, I must have been feeling especially creative that day, so on our arrival in Carmel I drove directly to a flower shop. As we walked inside I said to the florist, "I need a long-stemmed rose for my wife to carry while we go shopping in Carmel."

    The florist, a rather unromantic type, replied, "We sell them by the dozen."

    "I don't need a dozen," I said, "just one."

    "Well," he replied haughtily, "if you only want one it will cost you two dollars."

    "Wonderful," I exclaimed. "There's nothing worse than a cheap rose."

    Selecting the rose with some deliberation, I handed it to my wife. She was impressed! And the cost? Two dollars. Just two dollars. A bit later she looked up and said, "I must be the only woman in Carmel today carrying a rose." And I believe she probably was.

    Can you imagine the opportunity to create magic with those around you, and all for the cost of a few dollars, some imagination and care?


    Remember, it is not the amount that matters but the thought and care that often has the greatest impact upon those you love.

    The small details of our lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, the property, the bank balance that matters. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build a relationship.

    The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up...

    Live like a Candle Which Burns It self but Give Lights to Others.


    "œLive amongst people in such a manner that if you die they weep over you and if you are alive they crave for your company."



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    Re: Politeness is the best policy.

    Post  HAQ on Sun May 08, 2011 7:54 am





    Awww nice post baby Embarassed

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